Meanwhile back at sp headquarters, midgie awakes from her terrible dream ..... there there my pretty come and cwtch debs
Seriously tho' ..... good points there hun xxxxx

All very very good points Midgie. Well done hun :clap:

Always tell someone where you are going too and make sure you have an escape plan if things don't work out or get a bit uncomfortable (ie. enough cash for a taxi, enough credit on your phone, enough battery too!).

Always meet in a public place & somewhere familiar so you have your bearings as well.

Being a single fem meeting a couple, it's important (well I think it is) to discuss what you both want before gettin down to it - often it ends up that the single fem is fulfilling the couple's fantasy & not their own as well!

Just my two bobs worth...

welcome to the world of being a single swinger Funkateer

We agree with you midgee, Eve would neva have the courage or confidence to get down and dirty without having 'vetted' the lucky recipient 'fully'. Ground rules are 'sexily' discussed over the phone. We have a regular meet who is no longer on the site - he is now a friend but she would still not meet him on her own and we have met him 5 times! We have been approached by some straaaaaaaaaaaaange peeps on here. Stay safe ladies, listen to Midgie and 'popsy' Bazza xx.

this is a very oldfashioned view of things - it seems to me. Not that warnings are superfluous at any time. But: Reality is very sad. It is depressing and empty. Our lives are basically void of exciting events. SO: IF there is any odd way of getting any kind of suspense and thrill - forget these rules. Made by boring people for boring the rest of the non-boring people. Life is a risk at any time. There is no way to put a nice face to it. Life is a risk and at the end there is a real end. I am far from teaching - but if there is so much taught and hidden under remnants of humour, then face the truth. Life is a zero-point-game. You make a zero point bore out of it. Think it over and do not feel in the defensive

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