.... do you think the dwindling numbers on the site could have something to do with all the moaning going on in the forums? I'm not saying it's the only factor, but common sense should tell us that if any prospective new members popped in to have a look around to see what the site is like and saw all the rubbish in the forums, that they might just immediately close their browser after reading the forums? I know I would. But that's just me.
Maybe if you have any technical problems, with the chatroom for example, raise them in the appropriate way by raising a support ticket.
Maybe keep all the infighting out of the forums and keep it private among the parties involved rather than having a public spat like a school child.
Maybe keep all your moaning to yourselves and if you do feel the need to raise any issues about the site, do it in the appropriate way by contacting admin directly with your concerns.
Maybe if you have a problem with any particular member, keep it amongst yourselves and sort it out amongst yourselves without getting everyone else needlessly involved.
Maybe all the negativity that has taken over the forums lately is actually contributing to the drop in membership on the site.
Maybe the reason this year's MK social doesn't have as long an attendance list as it has done in previous years is because of all the negativity in the thread about the social.
Maybe we have all been contributing to our own downfall.
Maybe we should all just give it a rest.
Maybe this site is about having fun and chatting to and meeting with like-minded people. I could be wrong.
Maybe life could be a bit more fun if we all stopped taking it so seriously.
Maybe I need a shag.
Just maybe.
Maybe I should shut up now and just drink my beer.
